so former General David Petraeus affair recently came out and I was upset.
Another political figure caught in a scandal.
Cheating has never sat well with me and it never will. I just don’t understand why you would put yourself in a such a predicament. His mistress was also married and I can’t imagine the pain and embarrassment her husband is feeling.
I saw a photo of the former General’s wife and wondered maybe it was something with her that caused him to break those vows he promised to her. His wife isn’t as vibrant and young looking as his mistress not to mention she isn’t as sexually appealing either. At the same time it isn’t a reason to cheat. Everyone has their reasons for cheating…they may get bored, they may not be sexually fulfilled, their marriage is draining, they aren’t happy, or they want more. Some claim things just happen.
Sooo…you putting your penis or you taking dick ooo it just happened even though you know you’re married, you have children, are political figure, and in the public eye…ooo it just happened.
Cheating and infidelity don’t just happen. If you know you have an attraction to someone, if you know someone has mentioned that they are fond of you or admire you…why continue to entertain the idea by spending time together and communicating frequently? It just doesn’t make sense.
Yes people make mistakes but cheating to me in my eyes is an intentional mistake. You know what you’re doing…you’re fully aware and if you are human being you will feel guilty or some kind of feeling weighing your shoulders by what you’re doing.
If you don’t want to be with someone anymore its simple just say it. If you have that urge remove yourself from the situation or let your lover know that you have feelings or an urge to do things outside of your marriage. Express what the issue is! Tell her or him to lose weight, say your bored, say you want to have sex til you’re blue, you want to find that magic that brought you together again.
I can’t say if you cheat on someone you don’t love them but I don’t understand how anyone who truly loves you would ever put your heart through that kind pain.